In my work, I talk about under-the-radar learning disabilities
and how they affect homework performance. In fact, many homework-trapped
children, who appear defiant, are actually anxious. They manage their anxiety
through avoidant and rebellious behaviors.
Among the scales on a standard IQ test, working memory (one
of the two major under-the-radar learning disorders I refer to) is the one that
is most directly affected by anxiety. If a child is anxious, the child cannot
focus. He appears to have ADD. He comes home from school
clueless, where he is pressured to do things he cannot do, increasing his
anxiety. The major difference between the writer of this article and me is that this writer appears to focus on treating the anxiety whereas I consider it important to reduce the pressure. If the child remains under unrelenting pressure, anxiety reduction techniques will not help. First and foremost, we need to know that the child can do what the child is asked to do, and we’ll never get the answer until we limit the time of the homework session and step back to observe what the child does.
Dr. Kenneth Goldberg is a clinical psychologist with 35 years of professional experience in dealing with many different psychological issues. He is the author of The Homework Trap: How to Save the Sanity of Parents, Students and Teachers and currently works in his own private practice.
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